College Admissions

The D Word: Why Was I Deferred from a Likely School?

The D Word: Why Was I Deferred from a Likely School?

So, you were a strong student, with a profile that should have screamed "admit," yet you were deferred from your early action college that was intended to be a ‘more likely’ based on their admitted student profile. And now you're probably thinking, "What did I do wrong?"

When you apply to a college through early action, you're basically telling the college, "Hey, I'm interested in attending your school” but not it’s an emphatic, all caps, PLEASE ACCEPT ME. If the college is not 100% certain that you'll attend, or if you’re a really strong student and they suspect that they are your backup, and they think it’s actually very unlikely you will attend, they might defer your application, EVEN if you thought it would be an easy slam dunk.

So, what does a deferral mean in this case?

Analogies in College Essay Writing: Finding Your Voice

College admissions essays are an opportunity for applicants to showcase their unique personalities and stand out from the crowd. While there are many different approaches that students can take, one of the most powerful and relatable techniques that a student might try is the use of analogies. Analogies are comparisons between two things that are seemingly unrelated but share a commonality.

Analogies are particularly effective in college essays because they help to simplify complex ideas and make them more relatable to the reader. They can also bring a sense of humor and lightheartedness to an otherwise serious and formal piece of writing (remember, admissions officers can read hundreds of personal statements per week, you want yours to stand out!), and can help to add a touch of personality to an essay.

One great example of the power of analogies in college essays comes from

Choosing a College: Better to be a Little Fish in a Big Pond or a Big Fish in A Little Pond? 

Choosing a College: Better to be a Little Fish in a Big Pond or a Big Fish in A Little Pond? 

May 1st is almost upon us! Days are dwindling until students planning to enroll in US colleges and universities must declare their enrollment and submit a deposit (one deposit, by May 1!). Lately, I have been speaking with many students and families about the pros and cons of different universities. Sometimes, there is an obvious choice, sometimes you might have ‘no’ choice because of a binding Early Decision application, but for many other students, the decision-making process about which institution to ultimately enroll in is not so cut-and-dry. 

Especially in a year when most students did not have a chance to visit colleges before applying or even before enrolling, we encourage students to proactively research and learn about their options, make lists of their own priorities and questions, and then attend accepted student webinars, reach out to the admissions office, or reach out to the individual departments and professors. There are avenues to learn and get more information, and you should! This makes for a decision-making process that is more objective and less reliant on subjective peer group feedback.

What Does Authentic and Impactful Service Look Like For High School Students?

Volunteering Won’t Get You Into College & Is Not Required to Apply To College

Some students come to us with the mythical concept that they ‘must get involved’ or do ‘community service’ before they apply to college. This is not a prerequisite, and in fact colleges are savvy to the fact that high schools may have volunteer hour graduation requirements. I was recently reviewing the Common App with a student, and one college directly asked if they had done any volunteering that was not a school requirement.

Take your time choosing your cause

What is it that you are truly very passionate about? Do not rush into the first thing that comes to mind or something that sounds good to you on a whim. If you are going to dedicate yourself, truly, it may be something you are going to spend a lot of time on. So you don’t want to become disenchanted (or bored) midway through. You’ll need passion, drive, and commitment to work through the tough times when things don’t seem to be going as planned.

If you like…animals: Contact your local Humane Society or animal shelter. They are almost always looking for cat or dog companions and people to help with daily operations. Try contacting an aquarium or zoo and see if they could use a volunteer assistant.

If you like…working with children: There are many organizations that work with children including day care, family shelters, emergency food pantries, counseling services and hotlines. You could volunteer your time at your local Boys and Girls Club or become an after-school tutor or mentor.

If you like…arts and culture: Museums and cultural organizations are constantly looking for volunteers. Your local newspaper or city website probably has a calendar of events which might include opportunities like this. Search for events that have an art or cultural component (such as a festival) and contact them to see if you can help out in any way. Do you have more than one thing you love, and can’t make up your mind? Combine them! For example, if you love kids and are also artistic, visit your local children's hospital and offer to lead art activities for young patients. If you love animals and like to be outdoors, call your local animal shelter and inquire about becoming a dog walker.

Grow naturally, don’t rush it

You should be enthusiastic about your cause! However, this does not mean you need to try to “save the world” in one go. Great organizations start small and grow slowly to serve more and more people (or animals or communities, etc.) over time. Staying within your means is incredibly important; it does no good to anyone if you become overextended and need to shut down operations.

Don’t be a perfectionist

Everyone should strive to do their best. However, doing your best does not mean doing everything perfectly. It may not be very hard for you to get a 100% on a test in school, but the real world is quite a bit different. Things rarely work out perfectly, and it often takes a great deal of flexibility, compromise, persistence and patience to get things done. The ability to laugh at situations (or yourself) when things do not go your way will help a great deal as well. Skeptics – No matter what you do in life, there will always be people who doubt your abilities, your motivations and your dedication. This is just an unpleasant fact of life. Try not to let these people get you down. It is difficult sometimes to stay focused in the face of doubters, but over time as you become