We all make many daily decisions: what to eat, what to wear, how much time to spend on various tasks, to exercise, whether or not to call a friend, to go to sleep earlier, or to let Netflix auto-play the next episode.

For the “big” decisions, like college, it can feel like the first decision ‘that matters’ for a lot of high school students. It is a decision that gets so built up (by media/social media/social circles/bumper stickers/well-meaning uncles/you get the idea) as one that will change everything. No wonder you become a hot stress mess when it's put in such terms! But the reality is far different. I adore Tim Urban’s creations (I have a print-out of Your Life in Weeks beside my desk), including this graphic below.

Even when what feels like a significant change happens, I try to remind myself this is merely another slight curve on the path. Every day, many paths are open to your future, and this is empowering! You’re not defined by any one decision you make or any decision that seems to be made about you. Your path is yours to walk, carpe diem!